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Old 02-22-2011, 02:05 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Asalaam o alaikum everyone,
please guide me is it permissible for a syed girl to marry a non syed boy. My father gives the logic that as Hazrat Muhammad (peace be on Him) married his daughter Hazrat Fatima(R.A) to his cousin Hazrat Ali(R.A), hence it is obligatory for syeds to follow Prophet's sunnah and marry syed girls within our caste. Can you please guide me that is this logic correct? JazaakAllah

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what is "syed" or as we pronounce it "sayed" ?

in Islam, in what our prophet mohammad tought us .. there is no "sayed" and slaves "or normal people", we are all equal in Islam..

our prophet Mohammad - salla Allah alaihe wa sallam - said:
لا فضل لعربي على عجمي ، ولا لعجمي على عربي ، ولا لأبيض على أسود ، ولا لأسود على أبيض إلا بالتقوى ، الناس من آدم ، وآدم من تراب
which is mean:
there is no grace "prefer" to arabian on non-arabian, and no grace for non-arabian on arabian, and white man on black man, and black man on white man except there piety, we are all from Adam, and Adam was created from dust (sand).

and any Muslim boy boy can marry any Muslim girl with in Islamic rules (like you can't marry your mother, sister, aunt ... etc)

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In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful
Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
Shari’ah has taken great precaution in ensuring that nikah with an incompatible person does not take place. Therefore, Shari’ah advices one to perform nikah within those who are compatible and equal in the following factors:
  • Lineage.
  • Islam.
  • Piety.
  • Wealth.
  • Profession or occupation.
The Sayyeds hold the highest rank as far as lineage is concerned. The ‘Alawis and the Ansaris follow thereafter. However, all three will be regarded as equal in lineage and marriage between them will be regarded as compatible. Marriage of a Sayyed to anyone lower in status will be regarded as incompatible.
The issue of incompatibility in marriage will only take effect when a girl marries a person who is incompatible to her, without the consent of the wali (guardian). The wali will then have the right to annul the marriage. On the other hand, if the wali himself gets his daughter married to an incompatible person and feels that this person would be more suitable for his daughter, then it will be permissible for him to do so. Similarly, it will be permissible for a boy to get married to a girl who is not compatible to him.
In the light of the abovementioned, it will not be permissible for you to get married to a non-Sayyed without the consent of the guardian. However, if you find a boy who is not a Sayyed, but is bestowed with the bounties of knowledge and good character; it will be permissible for you to marry him with the consent of your guardian.
(Bahishti Zewar (English Translation) Vol.1 Pg.376 – Zam Zam Publications)
(Fatawa Mahmoodiyah Vol.11 Pg.622 – Jami’ah Farooqiyah)
And Allah knows best
Wassalam
Ml. Abu Yahya,
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thanku tanha for such a quick response, but both your posts contradict each other.. so which one to discuss??
i have read the second post before as well, but then if I believe that I have a higher lineage because of being a Syed dont it go against Islam's preaching of equality?? Dont I sound more like a hindu brahman..

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